tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530607394447796199.post739314776253856186..comments2024-03-24T01:36:05.928-07:00Comments on The Taming of L: And now, some words from L...Master49http://www.blogger.com/profile/01687617346919148607noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530607394447796199.post-42181776145440046292013-02-26T07:10:16.865-08:002013-02-26T07:10:16.865-08:00L, thank you for sharing this here. It is good for...L, thank you for sharing this here. It is good for me when I get to read about events from both perspectives. When I read it helps me to know that what I feel is normal. And I do want to let you know that what you felt that night in the chair is normal. <br /><br />I've felt that way also at times when Dave and I are together. The trust I have in him is such that I can leave myself, let my mind go away and know he is there for me, taking me to places where I find a peace so deep that I cannot recall everything which took place, nor can I explain where I was or exactly how it felt. Only that it is a place I want to go back.<br /><br />Dave and I laughed about this yesterday while we discussed a recent time when I went deep like this (I believe this is what is called subspace). I love the feel of the crop. Dave doesn't always use it. The last time he did however I was already gone in my mind and afterward when he was putting things away I saw him putting away the crop. I mentioned to him about it being out and he told me he used it. "What!" I said, "I missed the crop?" We laughed about it but I was genuinely upset that I'd missed the feel of it on me on a conscious level. I'm sure his use of it probably drove me deeper, but I felt like I'd missed out on it. <br />If this describes what you meant above, then it's one of the things I look forward to the most. The more we get opportunity to connect like this and play out these type of scenes with each other the more trust that is built between us and the deeper the connection. And yes, we have felt that connection carry over to our day to day and just help us move more in sync with each other; and unfortunate make the time we are separated so empty. <br /><br />I'm excited for the both of you. As one who has experienced what you both seem to be describing, it is something which mere words cannot fully describe. It is something I realize we would never have experienced if we had not stepped into this life we now live. I am truly thankful beyond words for where Dave and I have gone, and it sounds like this is where you both have found also. Jacquiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03977010794301234785noreply@blogger.com