Wednesday, January 15, 2014

On matters pertaining to sex

Please find above, for your viewing pleasure, what L and I believe is a rather lovely picture of me getting ready to penetrate her. You have to admit in terms of pre-penetration pictures, this one is pretty good. Some might say it is fucking hot. We both like it, and so we will share so that those of you who visit this blog seeking arousal through the written word will have a visual component to add to your pleasure. I have no concern that such a graphic image might offend some of you, because truthfully, you ought not to have been on this blog in the first place if you are an easily offended person.

It seems that Doms who write blogs about their lifestyle rarely go into graphic sexual detail about their D/s relationship, tending instead to focus on the philosophy of the D/s dynamics, leaving the delicious details to be revealed by the many subs out there who write so damn well. I'm talking about you, Conina! And that's all well and good, because I admire those Doms and what they have to say, and often times look to their blogs for guidance and suggestion. They helped me become the Dom I am today, and I tip my hat to them.

Every now and then I go down that road in my postings, more so in the beginning then I do now. As of late, if I feel inspired to sit down and write something, it is going to be on matters pertaining to sex. I draw inspiration to blog from the things that L and I do in the bedroom, wonderfully kinky things that are guided by our D/s relationship, and I suppose that maybe I have become more of a sex blogger than anything else.

What can I say? I'm a highly sexual person, and L is too. On my side, I didn't really come to terms or realize the full extent of my sexuality until I met L, and especially when we went down this road. I was in a sexless marriage for many years prior to meeting L --- at one time, a drought that lasted more than two years. It is quite the jump to go from that to what L and I have where it is very, very rare if we ever go a day without having sex. She bowed before me and handed me a key to unlock what she calls my "twisted mind", and when that door opened, I sure as hell wasn't going to close it. It is delicious. It completes me. It

But it is me because of L. It's much more than what you see in the above picture (again, what a nice picture!) and the fucking and the sucking and the Dominating and the submitting, it is because of the love I have for her as well. It is because of where we have been and where we are now. I don't just look forward to crawling into bed with her each and every night because I collar her and command her to do whatever I tell her to do based upon how I am feeling, I look forward to it because of what happens after that, when she falls asleep next to me, and I follow, and her warm body is next to mine, and I wake up to that wonderful feeling each and every morning.

And yes, the sex. Good lord almighty, the sex! Sex, I might add, with an absolutely perfect partner. Yes, you heard me. Perfect. A lovely woman, the most sexual woman I have ever met, eager to please and to be pleased, a naughty nympho not shy about admitting her love of sucking cock, a panty soaked pet ready to raise her ass to me at any time for a good old fashioned knock the pictures off of the wall, pounding from behind.

The sex. Good lord. The sex.

Which is why I write what I write.

Which is why I posted the picture above.


Permission to touch yourself granted.



  1. Yes, I would agree…absolutely amazing picture!! Thanks for sharing!


  2. Thanks for sharing a very impressive photo!!! I think your blog is so down to earth its great.
    All the best Ashly

  3. I didn't expect to see that when I opened the blog, but I wasn't offended by it either. ;) Great photo, thanks for sharing.

  4. Very much enjoyed your sexy thoughts here and picture!

  5. Awwww. I really really appreciate that comment. :) I was totally out of it at the time, but...thank you. :)

    Also that is quite the impressive photograph, and I definitely appreciate the things you write as well.