L asked me to pose this question to our readers to see what their thoughts were.
For starters, things have been exceptionally busy in our lives. I started a new job two weeks ago that has given me more responsibility and changed our regular routine. But things have also been exceptionally good for us. The new job was a good change for us and was a step back up the ladder of my professional career. I say a good change because it had a startlingly positive effect on my Dominance, and that has carried over into mine and L's D/s dynamics. We are both very happy, content people. And for the first time in a long time...a very long time....I have internal peace that has been sorely lacking.
Much more I could say about all of this, but we're getting ready to head out to a Super Bowl Party (Go 'Hawks!). Two nights in a row now, we have not engaged in TTWD. Two nights in a row the cane remained on the top shelf of my side of the closet, and for two nights in a row now, L's ass has gone untouched. Both nights we were just too tired to do anything (the downside of my new job), aside from regular sex Friday night and Saturday morning.
I told L last night I would make up for it before Monday with an extra hard session, and this morning she asked me to pose this to the masses. Should she really have to be put through an extra hard makeup session (which would just make her wet anyway, so why even ask) just because her Sir was too tired to do anything to her? Or should she simply get a pass, and our next session would be no more intense than they normally are?