Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Report Card


The other night pet and I were lying in bed and she was watching me work on my laptop grading papers.

"Give them all A's" she smiled, mostly because she wanted me to hurry up and finish so I would play with her.

I glanced over at her.

"I think I need to grade you," I said. "I'll send you a report card tomorrow."

Here is what I sent her. And like a good teacher, I allowed her the opportunity to comment.

(she was irritated by the use of the word dormant, which was not the best choice of words, because my pet can move in bed...take that, Miley Cyrus! What I meant by dormant was I like her to use her hands more often to grab, squeeze, and scratch at me...)

SEXUAL PERFORMANCE: A-

sub does sexually please me every time I desire and knows what I like and how to make me come, such as fucking back against me while I am on top or riding me. Too often, though, sub attempts to top from the bottom and tries to jump right to fucking (more because she wants it than anything) and will stop sucking on me when I am not ready for her to stop. sub needs to remember to use her hands more when sucking on me, and really needs to move towards having her Dom come in her mouth. As of late, she has done a better job of using her hands while being fucked, such as clawing at her Dom’s back and grabbing him, which he prefers over her lying there dormant. sub has the most amazing pussy the Dom has ever experienced, and he is proud to own it and can’t wait to share it with someone else.

sub's comments:

Lying there dormant???  Hmmm, not sure how to take that.

Will work on the topping…..and the swallowing.


SUBMISSIVE ATTITUDE: B

Probably the area the sub needs to improve on the most. sub comes close to excelling on this at night in the bedroom, but falters too often during the day. sub tends to lose sight of her role in the relationship and needs to remember her place and that her first and foremost goal should be focused on doing things that please her Dom. 

sub's comments:
I find it hard to transition at times between work and home.  Am aware and will work on this.


ACCEPTANCE OF MAINTENANCE/PUNISHMENT: A+

Probably the area the sub needs to improve on the most. sub comes close to excelling on this at night in the bedroom, but falters too often during the day. sub tends to lose sight of her role in the relationship and needs to remember her place and that her first and foremost goal should be focused on doing things that please her Dom.

sub's comments:
Yay…..what was it?  I get $50 for each A+, $40 for an A, $30 for a B and so forth?   


DESIRE TO LEARN: A

It is clear that the sub does want to learn how to do better and sincerely wants to do better.  Dom encourages sub to go back to reading blogs and learning from others, as well as making contact online with other subs for advice.

sub's comments:
I have not read a blog in a long while (since you quit your evening job really).  I will do some catch up this week.


DOMESTIC SUBMISSIVENESS: B+

Very good when it is working, sub makes a good domestic servant and does many things to please her Dom such as cooking, bringing him coffee in the morning and water at night. An inconsistent area though, as sub tends to let laziness trump her role and will let things slide.

sub's comments:
I was supposed to do the dishes last night and it was so comfy lying on your leg.  I think this is another area I could do better in and agree with your grade.


RESPONSIVENESS TO DOM: B

Many times there is a long delay in sub replying to her Dom’s text or email and often time does not even answer questions directed towards her. sub needs to remember that her focus should be on her Dom, even when he is not in her presence.

sub's comments:
Sorry!!  I will work on this one also.  I am so used to being in charge and putting my children first.


OVERALL PERFORMANCE: B+


Correcting the items above will elevate the sub to receiving an overall grade of an A. It should be noted that the sub needs her Dom to be stricter with her to help her along the way, and he is aware of his role as her teacher.  It should also be noted that there have been a lot of significant life changing events, as well as some faults of the Dom, that have derailed the dynamics at time. These things shall pass and we shall move on, stronger and better.

When the sub is at her submissive best, it is an amazing thing, and the Dom is quite pleased with her and proud of her during those moments. He loves his sub very much, and wants to do a better job as a Dom to help her grow in her role.

He looks forward to spending the rest of his life with her --- collared, leashed, and ready to serve and please.


sub's comments
I do want to be the best for you.  I also think that we weathered the storm and came out of it strong.  A good weekend all alone where you could do as you please would help about now (although, when we do travel or are alone, things are pretty mild).  



6 comments:

  1. A report card!
    That's a whole new kind of detailed feedback that I never thought to ask for :o)
    Lovely post.

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    1. Thank you! As a college instructor, it was a natural process for me. I do have my hands full with this particular student....but as I told her yesterday, her GPA is a 3.5, which is good enough for the honor roll. An induction ceremony is forthcoming.

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  2. As s and I are very new to this lifestyle, we have gained a lot of insight into ourselves and where we want to be in our roles. This particular entry seemed to parallel our own views of who we are. Thank you for continuing to keep your followers educated on your progress as well... D

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  3. Love the idea of a report card.. I love to get feedback but never know what specifically to ask. I might need to forward this to my fireman! :)

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  4. How cute, I love this idea! :)

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