Today L and I were lying on our bed together having a lazy day together (they seem rare, as of late) and I felt the need for a nap coming on, so I turned over to L, rested my head on her lap and took a nap.
It is usually the opposite with L's head on my lap, while I run my fingers through her hair, sometimes giving it a slight tug.
Today I put my head on my pet's lap and took a nap. It wasn't a Dominant act on my end, nor a submissive act on her end, it just....was. I put my head on her lap and took a nap, while she watched some show about someone on Bravo, and as my eyelids sank and the nap over took me, I cared not if I was Dominant or if she was submissive, but rather, because it was the most wonderful place to be.