Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Survey says

I added a survey asking about the frequency of sex in a D/s relationship. L and I had an active sex life prior to the relationship but it has certainly picked up speed over the last three weeks. I seem to be "on" on a regular basis as does she. It's quite...exciting. Constant cravings, as the song goes.


  1. Just wondering if I can vote twice? Once for how often it actually happens and once for often we would like it to happen. We are a bit older and life can wear you down. The intention is good, but my man is 5 months post heart bypass surgery and works 10 hour days at a very physical job.

  2. Faerie, if you want to express in the comments how often you would like it to happen as opposed to how often it actually happens, that would be better than responding to the survey a second time. I suspect a lot of people out there, whether they be having sex more than once a day or just once a week, would always want more if they could...

  3. Well, I voted 3-5 times a week. But that's only because I see him about 3-4 times a week. I suspect if we were living together it would be a totally different story.

    (Does 3 rounds spread over 4 hours count as 3 times or 1 time?)