I asked L this morning to email me why she wanted to be my submissive and what it meant to her. She claims that she isn't a writer, but I (usually) love her words and the way she expresses herself at times. Worth sharing, plus I found it quite arousing.
"First off, I wouldn't be submissive to anyone but you. The trust and communication that is involved is just plain crazy. I love you, I want to make you happy and please you. Using your words, you were my submissive for years....which is partly true and I acknowledge that. To be honest, if I didn't hand you over some control (and you're not the type of person who would want some control, you would want it all) I don't think we would work right now and that terrifies me. I'm not your submissive because I'm scared you will leave me, I submit to you because I want more than anything to please you....and I think it's always been me. I have been in charge forever.....even as a kid with my mother....she would take me on trips so I could drive and make the decisions half the time. Most times they were just damn good ideas and everyone just went with it. And I think it's good for me/us in the long run. I get more done. Even at yoga I found myself holding the poses for longer than I would have as I want to get in shape as it is your body now and it would please you.